Blog Break?

I think I need a blog break or whatever it is.

I’m having too much on my plate in the office. One leg kick now…handling 3 portfolios…as my boss, myself and my subordinate. Yup, both my upline and downline left 3 months ago and no successor yet.

Some of you may noticed that I hardly drop a comment on your post nowadays. Pardon  me. I hope I’ll still put up some post and visit your blog whenever possible. Definitely not as often as before.

Hope things will get better and under control soon.

Tag: My 1st Pregnancy Story

Of all her blog readers, she tagged me!  Why??? And later, got the same tag from Doreen and MistyMom. Guess, I can’t run away from doing this tag.

1. WAS YOUR FIRST PREGNANCY PLANNED? Yes.

2. WERE YOU MARRIED AT THE TIME? Yes.

3. WHAT WERE YOUR REACTIONS? Thankful and happy but uncertain if this pregnancy is viable despite my previous experience.
 
4. WAS ABORTION AN OPTION FOR YOU? Never.

5. HOW OLD WERE YOU? 29.

6. HOW DID YOU FIND OUT YOU WERE PREGNANT? Missed the monthly thingy and the pregnancy test kit says it all.

7. WHO DID YOU TELL FIRST? The baby’s Daddy…my Darling lor.

8. DID YOU WANT TO FIND OUT THE SEX? Definitely.

9. DUE DATE? 3 October 2007.

10. DID YOU HAVE MORNING SICKNESS? Thankfully no except for heart burn and indigestion throughout the whole 9 months.

11. WHAT DID YOU CRAVE? Nothing specific but I did asked for red bean soup quite often.
 
12. WHO/WHAT IRRITATED YOU THE MOST? No one and nothing.

13. WHAT WAS YOUR FIRST CHILD SEX? Boy.

14. DID YOU WISH YOU HAD THE OPPOSITE SEX OF WHAT YOU WERE GETTING? No. Praying for my 1st to be a boy all these while. God listened… 🙂
 
15. HOW MANY POUNDS DID YOU GAIN THROUGHOUT THE PREGNANCY? Can’t remember. I think around 20+kg. I remembered my gynae commented that I am overweight towards my 3rd trimester. 

16. DID YOU HAVE A BABY SHOWER? More of a thanksgiving party after what the little one had been through.

17. WAS IT A SURPRISE OR DID YOU KNOW? Are you joking? I was the event organizer.

18. DID YOU HAVE ANY COMPLICATIONS DURING YOUR PREGNANCY? Had slight staining in the beginning so afraid it may be a miscarriage again.

19. WHERE DID YOU GIVE BIRTH? Arunamari Specialist Hospital in Klang.
 
20. HOW MANY HOURS WERE YOU IN LABOR? On the day I suppose to be induced, little one already poo poo so was scheduled for a C-sect.

21. WHO DROVE YOU TO THE HOSPITAL? My Darling.
 
22. WHO WATCHED YOU GIVE BIRTH? My gynae and nurses.
 
23. WAS IT NATURAL OR C-SECTION? C-sect.

24. DID YOU TAKE MEDICINE TO EASE THE PAIN? Didn’t have the chance to feel the pain.
 
27. HOW MUCH DID YOUR CHILD WEIGH? 3.99kg.
 
28. WHEN WAS YOUR CHILD ACTUALLY BORN ? 8 October 2007.

30. WHAT DID YOU NAME HIM/HER? Jonathan…”Gift of God”.
 
31. HOW OLD IS YOUR FIRST BORN TODAY? 16+ months.

Kinda like this tag after all. Sis, you want to try?

Tag: A Lengthy One…

Ann tagged me with such a lengthy but interesting tag. Some really tested my memory.

Name: Julie
Sisters: 5
Brothers: None

Shoe size: 6 (5½ would be perfect)
Height : 157cm only

Where do you live: A place for BKT lover

Favourite
drinks: Milo ice
breakfast: Bread toast

Have you ever been on a plane? Yes
Swam in the ocean : No and hope never
Fallen asleep at school : Yes…blame it on the teacher
Broken someone’s heart: Yes
Fell off your chair : I don’t think so
Sat by the phone all night waiting for someone to call: Yes but I didn’t sat by the phone all night
Saved e-mails: Yes. I never delete work related emails. They are proof of documentation.

What is your room like : A mess!!

What’s right beside you: My baby! Jonathan wants to climb up my lap
What is the last thing you ate: Penang Asam Laksa

Ever had
chicken pox: Yes…lucky me it was when I’m a baby, so no scar
Sore throat: Of course!
Stitches: Yes but never regret
Broken nose: No

Do you
believe in love at first sight: No…exist only in movies
like picnics: Yes, yes, yes…

Who was the
last person you danced with: My Darling (when ar?)
last person who made you smile: Jonathan boy…only he can make me smile when I’m in anger 
person you last yelled at: My Darling…who else can I yell at to release my anger?

Today did you
Talk to someone you like: Of course lar…I’m not dumb
Kiss anyone: Yes, two most important man in my life
Get sick: No
Talk to an ex: No
Miss someone: Not yet
Eat: Still eating…munching tit-bits as I complete this tag

What is your best feeling in the world: Falling in love
Do you sleep with stuffed animals: Used to but now with two boys on bed, it all got kicked out!
What’s under your bed: Dust. I hope no dead cockroaches or lizards…eewww!
Who do you really hate: Opposite…(not referring to my neighbour)

What time is it now? 4.21pm

Random:
Is there a person who is on your mind now: My two guys
Do you want children: Yes. If not I would have Jonathan
Do you smile often: No…people would think that you are crazy
Do you like your hand-writing: Yes but I hope I can write better
Are your toe nails painted: Used to once a while but not now anymore
Whose bed other than yours would you rather sleep in: A luxurious hotel’s bed
What color shirt are you wearing now: White
What were you doing at 7:00 p.m. yesterday: Sleeping

I can’t wait till… : November…bonus time!
When did you cry last : Few weeks ago…pity that lady in the drama
Are you a friendly person: You say. Not me to judge
Do you have any pets: No but I wish for a big dog
Where is the person you have feelings for right now? Snoozing on my bed
Did the last person you hold hands with mean anything to you now? It has to mean something. He’s my son!

Do you sleep with the TV on? Used to but not possible now…the little one can’t sleep with any sound
Have you ever crawled through a window? When I’m little, playing hide-n-seek
Can you handle the truth? Test me if you want to know the answer
Are you too forgiving? Depending on situation and person

Are you closer to your mother or father? Mom
Who was the last person you cried in front of? No one. I was watching a sad drama series and shed tears quietly
How many people can you say you’ve really loved? Plenty. We should love one another, right?

Do you eat healthy? Haha…I must be telling lie if I say yes

Do you still have pictures of you & your ex? Is class group photo counted?
Have you ever cried because of something someone said to you? Yes
If you’re having a bad day, who are you most likely to go to? My Darling or Mom
Are you loud or quiet most of the time? Loud at home, quiet when I’m  outside
Are you confident? No

5 things I was doing 10 years ago:
a. Working part-time while waiting for result
b. First year in Uni
c. Missing home
d. Sleep (it’s a everyday thing right?)
e. Searching for a partner 😛

5 things on my to-do list today:
a. Finish this tag
b. Organize my room
c. Gardening
d. Complete some office work
e. Sleep

5 snacks I enjoy:
a. Green peas
b. Cheezels
c. Twisties
d. Chocolates with raisins
e. Fruits

5 things I would do if I were a billionaire:
a. Resign from work (Yipee!!)
b. Pay off my loans
c. Buy a bungalow
d. Give some money to my parents
e. Save for future

5 of my bad habits:
a. Never like to switch off lights.
b. Blinking my eyes
c. Stubborn and get agitated very quickly
d. Procrastinate
e. Take cold drinks or sometimes tid-bits right after meal

I just feel like tagging Anything Lah!, Aunty Next DoorHeartstring of A new mommy on this. However, if you have yet to get tagged and feels like sharing it, please consider yourself tag, ok?

Blighted Ovum

Does blighted ovum or empty sac sounds familiar to you? A blighted ovum is a fertilized egg which implants in the uterus, and begins to devlop a gestational sac. The fertilized egg, however, fails to form beyond the sixth week but the placenta continues to grow. From the ultrasound, you will see a empty gestational sac and fails to detect a heartbeat. Usually by the 8th to 9th week, the heartbeat should be able to be detected via ultrasound.

In the past, many women miscarried blighted ovum pregnancies without knowing what had happened. Today, thanks to the technology that an ultrasound can diagnosis a blighted ovum and because of the advancement of technology, blighted ovum is becoming more common. If you are lucky, the unhealty embryo will be delivered via natural miscarriage. If not, you need to go through a D&C which could be something tough to accept. The most hurtful misconception is that there never was a baby. There are many conflicting discussions about the choice of waiting to miscarry (allowing a natural miscarriage) and having a D&C done.

I first learn of this medical term when it first happened to my sis four years ago. She was lucky enough that it got miscarried on the day she was supposed to be admitted for a D&C. I’d also been through this tough time with my first pregnancy two years ago. I waited and prayed for a natural miscarriage but it never happen until the 12th week so ended up having a D&C. Lately, my staff went through a D&C because she was having a blighted ovum.

I truly believe that our style of living contributes to the health of our pregnancy. The food that we consume nowadays are not as healthy as before. The water we drank, the vegetables and poultry we consumed are exposed to a poluted environment. More women are working adults so they are bound to stress and are lethargic.

My advice to all ladies out there who are planning for a baby, to take care of your health and diet at least 6 months before pregnancy. You should begin to consume folic acid and additionally, milk for pregnant mothers. Obviously it is not viable to be on exotic slimming-down plan eventhough your plans for a baby is more than 1 year down the line. You may look healthy but your internal system may not be so.

I was so blessed having beside me my Darling who is so lovingly supportive and bold. Blessed to have the care and concern from my sisters and parents.